Day 3, and I’m still thinking about consistency. Probably because I’m wondering how I’m going to make this habit of recording a daily video consistent, but I said I would try to do it, so here’s 3 days in a row. Here’s 4 ideas for building more consistency in any new habit that you are… Continue reading 4 building blocks of consistency
Skylar: I won’t laugh until you’re done. Dan: You won’t laugh until I’m done? Okay. I’m recording with an audience of here. This is day two, and the reflection, or the thought of the day, is the power of consistency. On Saturday I was listening to Jeff Goins podcast, he calls it “The Portfolio Life”.… Continue reading The Power of Consistency
Unsafe people are like dice. Unpredictable. Safe people have behavioral predictability, without being boring.
Ever felt so out of sorts that you couldn’t think clearly? Just as emotional instability leads to a clouded mind, emotional stability leads to cognitive consistency.
Emotional stability builds closeness and trust in almost all of your important relationships.
Leadership, like fatherhood, requires humility, patience, and presence.
Presence vs. Independence. Independence gone bad is selfishness. So we try to be selfless. Selflessness gone bad is enmeshment. So we try to be Independent.
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In a loving home, the wife is loved and safe. Not subjugated. In a loving home, children are encouraged and built up. They are not shamed.